embrace positivity

I would say we are Victims Of Something whether its a victim of bullying , sexual abuse or any trauma in our lives . These three examples aren't the only examples, there are a whole lot more, I just wanted to name a few. I'm not an expert on victimization, the ins and outs of it but I was a victim of bullying. I could've felt sorry for myself the majority of my life but I CHOSE NOT TO . I didn't want to play the victim role anymore. I chose to get up and fight another day and many days after that. The situations that victims are put in are not always simple, they are often complexed. I didn't play the victim role and I don't want you to play that role either. No matter how bad the situation might be, there is light around the corner, there is hope around the corner, we just have to be  willing to search for it, that's all!! Be an advocate for Yourself, don't let those people who are/were victimizing You get an upper hand in Your own life. Don't l

Everyone is Special in their own way, there is no argument about that. I'm not talking about having a disability because some people confuse being special with having a disability. By the way I don't like the special ed terms, I never liked them. Anyways, the Special  that I'm talking about is when You and Us h ave something electrifying that we can give to the world. We have Special  a bilities and traits that can help others. In our jobs we help ourselves but not knowing we may help out others along the way. For example, any type of modeling, that is a Special ability that the world can see and modeling can give people or aspiring models the confidence to be themselves on the cat walk or in life that they might not have at the current moment. Another example are professional sports. There are so many professional sports or sports in general. People who are in this field have Special abilities as they play night in and night out. Aspiring people who want to be on th

When I was growing up, I was always playing it safe. When I was in classes I always raised my hand and participated. I'm not saying participating is not good because it is really good but sometimes I would rather be a class clown but not too much ( just a little) if that makes sense. I was and still am a goody goody and that is fine but sometimes that is boring. I want to live outside of my limits and I want to push it to the limit. I just don't want to do ordinary things, I want to do exciting things!! I want to push the limit and do exciting things within the law so don't get it twisted. I'm not going to go to jail if I can help it. I want to get my feet wet, not dry. I want a banana split with all of the toppings, not just a few, I want them ALL . The good and bad experiences are the experiences I want, maybe the good ones outweigh the bad (lol) but these are experiences none the less. Live Dangerously my friends!!

I finally did it!! I'm so excited because this is the first time I'm living by myself. In the past, I had roommates in Washington, DC and in college but currently this is a new chapter in my life and I'm totally ready for it!!! The two reasons I wanted to move out was to become independent. I was independent when I was living with my mother but the independent that I'm talking about is being free to do whatever I want to do. The second reason I wanted to move was because no young lady wants a guy who still lives with their mother. I'm going to be truthfully honest with you guys, that's how it is (lol). I cried when my mother said she is proud of me because she knew how badly I wanted to move out and to see it happening is truly Progression and  Never Giving Up is the message I want to give to you guys.   I want to be the definition of progression and I want You guys to be the definition of progression. I don't want to look in the past unless I'm look