embrace positivity

Sometimes I'm weak and sometimes I'm strong. I'm not talking about anything physical. I'm talking about the emotional, mental and spiritual weakness and sometimes the strength that I posses. I'm a human being and I admit that I'm weak and strong sometimes and I'm not ashamed of it at all. I was weak this week because I asked this girl out via Facebook message.. I know I should've talked to her face to face but I was super anxious on asking her out, maybe the weakness that I possessed this past week  was not the messaging on Facebook but the lack of communication that I give her. She is in my class three times a week. and I talk to her but it seems like sometimes my communication is lacking when it shouldn't be. I view communication like a light switch. When my communication is good and effective the light switch is on and when my communication is lacking and deteriorating the light switch is off. My strength was that I asked the girl out and she said

This post is a continuation from the post I wrote yesterday about expressing yourself in a positive light. Expressing yourself is always a risk whatever your expression  is but you have to express yourself for two reasons, 1) it will help you overcome your fears and 2) you have to get out of your comfort zone. In my situation that I expressed to you guys yesterday I took a risk and got outside of my comfort zone. I didn't know if she would respond negatively or positively and that is the risk right there. Thank God she responded in a positive manner and I'm so grateful for that. So guys, take risks and get out of your comfort zones. You won't know the outcome until you have tried and when you try that you are embarking into a territory that is worth while. Your situation might not be like mine but the main thing is to express yourself in a positive light. Taking risks and getting out of your comfort zone is not easy and it's scary, trust me, I know!! 

In the previous post, I expressed my liking of messages in movies. Even though Deadpool is hilarious, the movie has valuable messages in it. The main message in my opinion is that looks are  not everything, what really matters is the personalities and attitudes of individuals. The other messages in the movie is to forgive and love unconditionally. The main character didn't forgive his enemies but the valuable message in this is to forgive the bad acts that were put on you by your enemies and Love Thy Neighbor. The main characters wife loved the main character unconditionally even though he left her all alone. I hope you guys see the movie because it is a fantastic movie starring Ryan Reynolds.

For little sibs weekend on campus  my nephew came up and we hung out the entire weekend. One night my movies nephew and I went to the movies to see Zooptopia . This movie is so good and I recommend all ages to go see it. I really like movies that have messages in them and this movie has really good messages in it in my opinion. The messages are don't let your insecurities hinder your happiness and the other message is you can make a difference regardless how small or big you are. I don't want to spoil the movie for you guys so I'm just going to stop here.

I like to express myself freely and expressing yourself means that you are not letting your insecurities hinder your happiness and that is the actual goal!! People might have certain problems in regards of you expressing yourself but disregard those people because they don't matter in these situations. The only people that matter are you and that person you are expressing yourself to. You can express yourself about anything and that can include having assertiveness, displaying affection to a girl/guy or through various art forms. A few weeks ago I expressed myself to a girl that goes to my school. I wanted to talk to her face to face but that didn't happen so I had to message her on Facebook. I didn't want to message her on Facebook because it's really not an effective way to communicate to people if you want to express yourself in an intimate way. Anyways, I finally messaged her and I felt really good and I don't regret anything!! I expressed myself to a lot of gir