Beautiful Sceneries even Solo

 On Memorial Day, I wanted to do something, it was such a nice day. Before I begin with this post, I would like to thank you for all of the service men and women, past and present who serve our mighty country and to keep the past, present and future generations safe. Back to the story, on Memorial Day, I went to the botanical gardens. I haven't been to the gardens before, so I decided to check them out. As I was exploring, a deep sense of tranquility came over me. The tranquility came over me but also a deep appreciation for nature and our planet casted over me. I never viewed myself as an advocate of climate change or save a planet type of guy but I realized that we must conserve our natural resources domestically and foreign so we can have plenty of the natural resources for our future generations. 

    I asked this young lady to go to the gardens with me but she declined. I was hella sad but what can I do? She gave me a reason but I'm unsure of that reason now in the midst of me writing this post now. I repeat myself, what can I do? I wasn't going to marry the young lady the next day, I just wanted to spend some quality minutes with her (LOL) and if something happens, great but if not, let the breeze blow her in a direction of a happy and pleasant life. And plus, women aren't promised tomorrow (LOL). While dealing with this conundrum at the time, I realized life has pain and it's weird how I'm just realizing this now at thirty-two years old. I'm not just talking about the situation that I was dealing with, but a lot of situations or circumstances are painful to bear. But without pain, you can't have joyous celebrations. 


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