embrace positivity

I'm going to be honest with you guys, I've been really depressed lately because of this girl. I'm not going into details but she hurt me to the core. My sister told me I should get a Tinder but for some reason I don't trust  Tinder or any other dating websites. I know that God will find me a soulmate, it's just on His timing and not on my timing. I asked God to release this pain from my heart and I know He will release that pain. The key word is time.  As time goes on, God will heal and patch up my heart. I know God will do this but at the same time, there is always a picture in my mind that we are together and having fun. Obviously that image is false because we ae not together. I get so sad sometimes but I'm a champion within myself and God gave me wings to fly from the stars and back so I'm not going to let the situation destroy me. We are all champions within and we need to display our champion mindset in our daily lives. For anybody who dealt or is de...

Before I start expressing myself on this post, I want to let you guys know that I'm going to probably say some things that you might disagree with. If you don't like it, you don't like it.  There were so many tragedies these past years and these tragedies deeply saddened me. These tragedies are not only happening on domestic lands but also on international lands as well.  First I want to address some corrupt cops who shoot and kill African American males. The key word is some because all cops aren't corrupt. Honestly those (some)  cops are hurting themselves in the long run. I bet they would eventually face the facts of what they did and the facts aren't going to be so pretty. They would have to live their lives with guilt and shame in their hearts each and every day. Maybe the cops who commit these inhumane acts don't think this way but I would feel so bad, it would tear me up inside.  Because of these incidents, the Black Lives Matte...

I know this incident happened a while ago but since I have a disability I cannot ignore this. I know all of you have heard about how Donald Trump mocked a person who had a disability. The individual who got mocked works for New York Times. Even though we might be livid about this horrible act, especially the disabled community, we must be level headed in this situation. One of the many duties of being a Christian is to Love Thy Neighbor. Another duty is to forgive. I am going to obey the duties of the Lord until blood runs out of my veins and arteries. When people target you with negativity, you just target those negative people with positivity and love. Some of us might not like Donald Trump but we have to love each other and respect everybody even though we may not like to. Be the bigger man and be the bigger woman. Negative people need love too and we all should show and give love to all people, non- disabled and disabled. We should pray for Donald Trump and other...

Awhile a go, I watched Jurassic World on T.V. and I watched this movie several times but in that very moment while I watching, I came to the realization that we all need to respect and have love for all animals, even the vicious ones. Even though dinosaurs were extinct for millions of years, I was thinking if I got approached by one, how would I react. I know I would be scared out of my mind, that's one thing I know for sure. Would I want to kill them if they were trying to kill me or would I  just let them go by without any action in the hands of me. You could relate this movie to the current lifestyle we are living right now. There are two groups of people in this world regarding this subject matter. One group are people  who want to hunt animals for clothing, souvenirs and sport . The other group is people who want to preserve animals, to keep them safe from hunters. I wouldn't say I'm a advocator for animals but I am a child of God and I believe that ev...

Yes it's true, I'm graduating from Mercyhurst University with a Bachelor's degree in General Studies. God has blessed me tremendously and He will continue to bless me in the future. I'm so grateful and humbled at the same time. I've weathered the storm of adversity and I will continue to weather many storms as time goes on. The key is to have faith and let God guide you in the direction that He wants you to pursue, not the other way around.  People will try to steal your joy each and everyday but be consistent with the Lord Jesus Christ and you will never fail and that is a promise. I know some of you guys reading this may not believe in God but this is my perspective and He has contributed to my success and accomplishments and He will continue to be an integral part of my life. For those people who don't believe, you can just read this respectfully and go about your business. Another part of me graduating this weeken...

Sometimes I'm weak and sometimes I'm strong. I'm not talking about anything physical. I'm talking about the emotional, mental and spiritual weakness and sometimes the strength that I posses. I'm a human being and I admit that I'm weak and strong sometimes and I'm not ashamed of it at all. I was weak this week because I asked this girl out via Facebook message.. I know I should've talked to her face to face but I was super anxious on asking her out, maybe the weakness that I possessed this past week  was not the messaging on Facebook but the lack of communication that I give her. She is in my class three times a week. and I talk to her but it seems like sometimes my communication is lacking when it shouldn't be. I view communication like a light switch. When my communication is good and effective the light switch is on and when my communication is lacking and deteriorating the light switch is off. My strength was that I asked the gir...

This post is a continuation from the post I wrote yesterday about expressing yourself in a positive light. Expressing yourself is always a risk whatever your expression  is but you have to express yourself for two reasons, 1) it will help you overcome your fears and 2) you have to get out of your comfort zone. In my situation that I expressed to you guys yesterday I took a risk and got outside of my comfort zone. I didn't know if she would respond negatively or positively and that is the risk right there. Thank God she responded in a positive manner and I'm so grateful for that. So guys, take risks and get out of your comfort zones. You won't know the outcome until you have tried and when you try that you are embarking into a territory that is worth while. Your situation might not be like mine but the main thing is to express yourself in a positive light. Taking risks and getting out of your comfort zone is not easy and it's scary, trust me, ...