embrace positivity

There are so many definitions of beauty that people can come up. I have my own definition but  I have to acknowledge that there is inner and outer beauty. My definition of beauty is interior and exterior looks and feelings that you feel about yourself and maybe others. My definition of beauty involves self-esteem too. I know inner beauty is important, well it's important to me but outer beauty doesn't hurt. Outer beauty involves someone's looks. . My only problem with outer beauty is that a lot of people get so consumed about maintaining or trying to keep up their outer beauty or someone else's beauty, they don't deal with their inner beauty and maybe they have self-esteem issues along the way. When looking at young ladies, their outer beauty is very impressive but I wonder if their inner beauty ( personality and what type of heart they have) is true and not fake. I work in a restaurant so I see young ladies come and go and I talk to some of them, small talk but...

When I started college I was nervous because I was shy and insecure. Don't get me wrong, I'm still insecure about somethings but I guess I can openly express my insecurities now instead of bottling them up when I way younger. Anyways, when I started college I wanted to interact with people. I had a roommate my freshman year and we played UFC on X-Box. We played the game a few times and it was a fun bonding experience. One day I was in English class and we had an assignment to do on the computer. The assignment wasn't graded but if we did the assignment we would get a check mark by our name. This kid who is my friend now came over to me and told me that he wasn't going to do the assignment because it was stupid. Well I told him "you should do it because it's worth points". We remain friends till this day. I had so many Social Experiences in college, I just wanted to name a few of my Social Experiences . I have Social Experiences til this day and I vow...

The word O.G. stands for original gangster and in my opinion I would change the meaning of the term to mean original gentleman. Gangsters got shot back then and wanna be gangsters get shot now. Some wanna be gangsters want to be cool but they can be cool with the term original gentleman. I'm not discrediting any people that coined this term but this is what I feel is needed in this society and for our individual selves. The original gentleman will be a gentleman of course but with that being said the gentleman is human too. He makes mistakes but he admits them in classy ways. Also, he does want he is passionate about . I would be highly scrutinized if I didn't bring women into this conversation so I think it would be proper to call women the original woman or the original lady. They will have the same qualities as the original gentleman but of course the original woman or lady will have a different anatomy. The...

Everybody can be Sexy, i ts just about being self confident and be true to Yourself.   I'm not only talking about physical appearance, it is also about what You feel inside. I didn't feel sexy earlier in life but now I do because I am confident and I am staying true to myself. I'm pretty sure I was sexy earlier in life but I didn't know how to channel that sexiness. Since being   sexy i s inner in my opinion, this might be a mental health issue. I know this be a big stretch but it's all about being self aware about your state of mind and state of being . Be Sexy is accepting You for You and not giving a shit about what other people say or do. You do You and don't lose that sexiness!!

Earlier this week, the general manager of the establishment that I work at had an employee meeting and the general manager had many points but one of the points that he made grasped my attention. The establishment and for his own personal development, he doesn't want to be content on what's good now. He wants the establishment and himself to grow, he doesn't want good enough. I can relate to this in my life.  I recently published a poem book entitled Stories of An Emotional Man a nd it's my first book. The book is not perfect but it's a body of art. My next project of the same medium will be bigger and better. My definitions of Don't be content i s to never relax in the particular moment ( enjoy the moment but keep evolving), strive for better and personal growth . You m ight have your own definitions of Don't be content.  DON'T BE CONTENT, DON'T BE CONTENT, DON'T BE CONTENT, DON'T BE CONTENT!!

When a girl didn't like me in the boyfriend and girlfriend kinda way, m y parents told me that there are other fish in the sea but I didn't like that saying when I was younger and I still don't like the saying. I don't like that saying because I was focusing on one girl and to me, the other girls didn't matter at the current moment or those moments. I still looked at other girls but at the same time, I was thinking of that one girl and she was on my mind everyday. It just happened like that. It might seem crazy to you guys but it's the truth. I know I wear my heart on my sleeve and that's ok with me. Wearing my heart on my sleeve can come with advantages and disadvantages I guess but I don't think I would want it any other way. I have my heart in my body and also on my sleeve. I'm interesting and one of a kind. I will always have my heart in different areas in my life and different places on/in my body. Have a heart always!!

When I say I love you I mean that shit!! There are different kinds of love: 1.  Eros- represents the idea of sexual passion and desire, 2. Philia- involves friendship,  3. Storge- involves family and familiarity, 4. Ludus- involves the early stage of love, 5. Mania- being in love obsessively ( think about any lifetime movie lol), 6.  Pragma- Love that keeps going, 7. Philautia- Caring for others type of love, and  8. Agape- Unconditional love (you don't expect anything in return). I think I have a little bit of these different kinds of love within me. Some people might show love differently than others. When I was in college, my friend always told me that his family doesn't care about him and I always told him that his family does care for him. They might show love in a different way but love is definitely there. Maybe when some  people can't express love in a natural way, they weren't loved themselves when they were younger. The keyword is m...