embrace positivity

Everybody can be Sexy, i ts just about being self confident and be true to Yourself.   I'm not only talking about physical appearance, it is also about what You feel inside. I didn't feel sexy earlier in life but now I do because I am confident and I am staying true to myself. I'm pretty sure I was sexy earlier in life but I didn't know how to channel that sexiness. Since being   sexy i s inner in my opinion, this might be a mental health issue. I know this be a big stretch but it's all about being self aware about your state of mind and state of being . Be Sexy is accepting You for You and not giving a shit about what other people say or do. You do You and don't lose that sexiness!!

Earlier this week, the general manager of the establishment that I work at had an employee meeting and the general manager had many points but one of the points that he made grasped my attention. The establishment and for his own personal development, he doesn't want to be content on what's good now. He wants the establishment and himself to grow, he doesn't want good enough. I can relate to this in my life.  I recently published a poem book entitled Stories of An Emotional Man a nd it's my first book. The book is not perfect but it's a body of art. My next project of the same medium will be bigger and better. My definitions of Don't be content i s to never relax in the particular moment ( enjoy the moment but keep evolving), strive for better and personal growth . You m ight have your own definitions of Don't be content.  DON'T BE CONTENT, DON'T BE CONTENT, DON'T BE CONTENT, DON'T BE CONTENT!!

When a girl didn't like me in the boyfriend and girlfriend kinda way, m y parents told me that there are other fish in the sea but I didn't like that saying when I was younger and I still don't like the saying. I don't like that saying because I was focusing on one girl and to me, the other girls didn't matter at the current moment or those moments. I still looked at other girls but at the same time, I was thinking of that one girl and she was on my mind everyday. It just happened like that. It might seem crazy to you guys but it's the truth. I know I wear my heart on my sleeve and that's ok with me. Wearing my heart on my sleeve can come with advantages and disadvantages I guess but I don't think I would want it any other way. I have my heart in my body and also on my sleeve. I'm interesting and one of a kind. I will always have my heart in different areas in my life and different places on/in my body. Have a heart always!!

When I say I love you I mean that shit!! There are different kinds of love: 1.  Eros- represents the idea of sexual passion and desire, 2. Philia- involves friendship,  3. Storge- involves family and familiarity, 4. Ludus- involves the early stage of love, 5. Mania- being in love obsessively ( think about any lifetime movie lol), 6.  Pragma- Love that keeps going, 7. Philautia- Caring for others type of love, and  8. Agape- Unconditional love (you don't expect anything in return). I think I have a little bit of these different kinds of love within me. Some people might show love differently than others. When I was in college, my friend always told me that his family doesn't care about him and I always told him that his family does care for him. They might show love in a different way but love is definitely there. Maybe when some  people can't express love in a natural way, they weren't loved themselves when they were younger. The keyword is m...

I would say I'm not a judgmental person. Be Who You Are and that should be accepted by a ll people but it's not. I don't why, maybe some people were raised to not accept other people for who they are. Maybe it's because some people went through certain situations that made them scared and that made them not accept other people for who they are. There might be a million reasons why some people don't accept people for who they are. I might never know. But all I know is that I'm going to keep accepting people for who they are. By Accepting People Who They Are also means accepting their flaws and/or imperfections. Also, it means forgiving people's past or present mistakes. The first group/community that came to mind when I was going to write this post is the LGBTQIA. I don't know all of the facts and news about this group/community but people who are in this group/community just want to live their lives like everybody else so FUCK those n...

Some people say everyone has a disability and I know they don't mean any harm but those words make me cringe. I would agree all people struggle with something but that doesn't mean they actually have a disability. I have a disability called Joubert Syndrome, it's a neurological disorder that affects my coordination, balance and speech. I don't like when some people play with certain conditions and they don't even have the condition. For example, when somebody says they have OCD and they actually don't and they play with that. A lot of people do have OCD, a real diagnosis with doctors giving them meds to treat the OCD. In my opinion, I think it's a slap in the face for the people who have the real diagnosis. I don't understand how some people can joke about this!! I know some people will continue to joke about this and it's truly sad but I just wanted to speak on it.

Every time I write on my blog and write poetry, it helps me to express myself of course but it soothes me also. The point of this blog is to help others and I didn't realize this blog is helping me out also.  I'm not a therapist by all means but hopefully what I went through and what I'm going through presently will help people out. This makes me joyful and I will continue to do what makes me joyful. Do what makes you joyful even if people don't understand it or won't understand it!! People will persecute you for doing You and I say, keep doing You and You will prevail . Have a joyous occasion everyday. What is your therapy?